where?

in retrospect.... there are several things one oughta consider when trusting others.... will they treat you with the same respect and honor that you attribute to them? will they love you like a friend? will they acknowledge you in every setting? will they go out of their way to be conscientious of you and your concerns? will they let you speak about yourself and really listen? will they be a shoulder to cry on when needed? to many times in life these kind of people are rarely found. I have found that most people are self absorbed and only want to talk about themselves. and if you bring up any subject htat is YOU orienttated... thay simply have no time to listen.... where have the good old days gone when there were good lod friends?